A Secret Affair

6 Feb

Tackling love, betrayal and trust – The movie is all about a couple who are madly and deeply in love with each other. After two months of dating together, Anton proposed to Raffy. During the preparations for their upcoming wedding, Raffy, the fiancee, was pressured with all the comments she has been hearing from everybody and all the happenings in her life. Her confusion and fears led her to leaving Anton and becoming a run-away bride.


This is a really nice movie which depicts infidelity in relationships, which is so current nowadays. Infidelity is never a mistake, it’s just a choice which you make and you can never ever really trust that person again, even if the love is there – and as much as you want to fix the relationship, the damage has been done… and there’s really no coming back. Betrayal is like a poison. Despite all the efforts and considerations made, there will still be more misunderstandings, doubts and problems. There are some who can survive the infidelity and unfaithfulness. They are the ones who are strong enough to ignore the pain and disregard the doubts in their minds and hearts. When trust is broken, the relationship will never be the same again.

I love the ending…!

“Before I met you, I thought I had a perfect life. And you came into the picture and turned my life completely. you made me realize what true love is. You made me realize what happiness is.”

“Marriage is a sentence. A life sentence. It has to be served.”

“Betrayal, in all forms, is painful. It can make you go crazy. But we all have choices on how to deal with it. Do we just go away or stay?”

“Don’t confuse love with sex, sweetie.”

5 Responses to “A Secret Affair”

  1. tkk February 19, 2014 at 4:49 am #

    interesting…but how do you figure out the Filipino part of the conversation?
    as someone [not me 😉 !] once wrote:
    Women LOVE sex
    Men love SEX

  2. Maliha Bhugalee February 19, 2014 at 11:40 am #

    I suppose all (normal) human beings do! 😉

  3. tkk February 19, 2014 at 2:25 pm #

    oh, yeah for sure. but the catch is in the caps locked words: love being more important to women than men…

  4. Maliha Bhugalee February 20, 2014 at 7:12 am #

    I noticed the emphasis on the love bit! Women won’t have sex with someone they don’t love – This is my opinion. I believe if the attraction mental/physical/spiritual attraction ain’t there – a woman won’t take the step of sharing what’s precious to her!

  5. tkk February 20, 2014 at 1:53 pm #

    of course! both love and sex are to converge in any sustainable relationship…assuming the three ingredients you mention are there…

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: