Archive | September, 2007

How Will I Know I Am In Love?

20 Sep

By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz

In our many interviews with people “in love” we ask them, perhaps, the most revealing question of the interview – “How will I know I am in love?” We have heard very consistent answers. And conversely, many people involved in a new loving relationship, particularly young people, often ask us, “How do I know if I am in love?” We think we know the answer.

While we have heard a number of answers to our “How do you know you are in love” question, we can place them in seven categories. And, perhaps surprisingly, they have stayed the same over our 25 years of research on couples in love. Here they are, in a nutshell.

The first category is physical. People who say they are in love report getting “goosebumps,” “a palpitating heart,” “sweaty palms,” “a lump in my throat,” “teary-eyed when I say goodbye,” “a tingling sensation all over my body,” and the like. People in love have a positive physical reaction when they think about or see the one they love in person.

The second category is emotional. When they think about or see the person they love most lovers report similar feelings – “I laugh more often when I am with the person I love,” “an uncontrollable smile comes over my face whenever I see her,” and “I miss him when he leaves the room.” People in love feel emotions for the person they love that they do not routinely feel for others.

The third category is positive worry. Over the years, we continue to be amazed about the consistency with which people in love report to us that they “worry about their lover” when they are not around. Little thoughts of what we have come to call “positive worry” about the one they love begins to creep into their mind – things like car accidents, falling down, getting hurt at work, and getting sick. The folks we interview for the most part do not worry compulsively or negatively. These thoughts are normal and natural when you are “in love.”

The fourth category is what we call the I-cannot-imagine-life-without-her category. This is the point in love when you begin to think about the future – your future with the one you love. When you cannot imagine your life without him, you are in love!

The fifth category focuses on the oneness of your relationship. You begin to realize that you truly want this other person in your life. You want to be with them. You want to share with them. You want to live with them, share a bed with them, hold them and hug them. In our book, we refer to the notion of “turning two into one.” You actually begin to think about the one you love and not just about yourself or your needs. You think about theirs – their wants, their needs, and their desires. When the feeling of oneness consumes your body you are in love!

The sixth category is about pre-occupied love. Simply stated, you think about the one you love most of the time. You can’t get them out of your mind. You pull their photo out of your wallet and you smile. You are pre-occupied with them. When you are pre-occupied with them, you are in love with them!

The seventh and final category is love itself and your ability to express that love. You finally have the courage to tell them you love them! You miss them when they are not around. You worry about them. You care about their safety and welfare. You feel about them in ways you have never felt about another human being before. You suddenly and out of nowhere are inspired to say I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! You shout it to the stars. You are in love!



20 Sep

Helooo… Hw r yall? I’ve finally come back to my senses 🙂 and I’m perfectly alright, thank you!

Ok here I’m with yet another post…And as usual a weird 1, think am gettin used to posting weird posts.

I’m gonna narrate you my story with cats, or my “intimate” relationship with those wonderful Since I was this lil (hope you can imagine how lil I was ;-)) I had some kinda special connections with cats.


How can you not fall in love with this beautiful creature???

Those suffering from heart problems..please don’t read any further.

This happened after my 2nd birthday party. Well after every birthdays, normally ppl wash all what are used, ustensils, etc -if thats not the case at yr place, plz kindly let me know-, however on that day, mom left a knife around…Hmmm, lil me took the knife and the cat!!!!!!!!!!!!! N i just kinda scratched his head 😦 Not too much violence finally…pfff its awfulllll. I sincerely regret that act, though I didnt do it consciously. Luckily, my mom saw the lil cat..but he wasn’t bleedin fortunately.

I dunno if that’s the reason I love cats so much! lol..ok u must be sayin…”gosh such a criminal act” com’on i was only 2. 😦 but i sincerely lovee catss…Infact I can’t imagine life without cats. They are the most nicey creatures i came across. N i love tigers, lions, kangaroo…Ofait I just love “animals”!

I have spent 21 years with cats. I’ve had over 25cats, and their names were always kinda weird or funny(for those who hav some kinda humour left)-manou, sinois, tipice, gris, garfield, ti tom…But none of them stayed more than 3years..except for ‘manou’, who also recently disappeared. Infact all of them mysteriously disappear or just get accidentally killed on the road. They say that when cats mysteriously disappear, we should assume that they went off to die somewhere like some animals do. N thats real sad!!

I love cats..and i got few friends who love cats as I do. N its said that “Anybody who hates cats can’t have much in common with a cat lover” …N its sooo true!

Long Live CATS!! N me 🙂


Now playing: 2 – David Guetta vs The Egg, Joachim Garraud, Chris Willis – Love don’t let me go Walking away

via FoxyTune

Actually I can’t even fink of a title to put in here!

15 Sep

pfff…so here I’m bloggin..i mean “rilly” bloggin after many days. I’m in a state of confusion right now.

i dont hav much to say so i better tell ya, dont go any further if u got better to do. get back with yr work.

For those who want to continue readin, carry on dun blame me later for pissin u off wv ma borin story/life!

Confusion is actually reigning in ma mind..guess zez days its even takin control of it. I can’t even think right. I get moody. I say wrong fings at the right wrong moment. In brief, everythin’ appears upside down. I’ve spent like 4 days in front of my pc, with this damn project and I still don’t have any idea how i’m gonna proceed. HELPPPPPPP!!

As i’ve said my mind has ceased to work, but i fink my heart has taken control of my life! N damnit, that’s the worst fing which can happen to you. Thats where maybe u’d do or say fings without even thinkin about the consequences. Thinkin wv ur heart… The most fragile moments of sum1s life.. I want ma mind backkk!! So if I tell YOU fings (bitter truths :-P), just ignore meeee… 😛

my heart wrecked my emotions proper so they are negative to positive but then proper negative again. Before, I did feel really bad and I was proper negative about everything and everyone . My inside feeling has changed so I am sensing a better vibe than before and that was what was missing before. Yee-ha! Do I sound CrAzY or CraZy like rilly CRAZY?? 😦

“Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same. Just like the dodo in the museum- Heal Me…


12 Sep

My birfday cake..

My Birfday Cake..doznt it look yummy? leme tell u zat it even tastes yummyyy :p

Already 21 😦 time really flies! Becomin’ Old maybe..but more mature of course! 🙂 I had a fantastic week,maybe the best birthday of all my life, which I’ll always cherish! Special Thanks to my parents, my chou, my cousins and my lovely friends!! Love u all to bits.. Spendin 24hrs with so many ppl is quite impossible..So i took a whole week to celebrate it with all those I love!

Enjoyed lotssss till yesterdayy!! … 🙂 🙂 lol..closin’ ceremony was yesterday 🙂

Now one blessed month of ramadaan lies ahead..wish you all Ramadaan Mubarak 🙂 God bless ya all! Surtout contr le tsunami :p

p.s: piX of my bday have been uploaded on my hi5 profile…

This is 4ya..IT “geeks” :-)

12 Sep

1. Internet people love acronyms because they make communication much more efficient, as we can see from the following typical conversation:

Person A: What’s up?
Person B: Not much.
Person A: LOL. HEFY?
Person B: ROTFL.
Person C: PMFJ, but IMHO,
Dave Barry, Dave Barry In Cyberspace

2. Telling computer guys that they need to have permission to quote things is like having to tell little children about Death. – Ted Nelson

3. EASY TO INSTALL = Difficult to install, but instruction manual has pictures.

4. Basically, Doom is a (violent) 3D arcade game where you run around in a maze and kill things with shotguns and chainsaws…. After you get tired of killing things, you can run it over a network and kill things together with your friends. After you get tired of that, you can kill your friends.

Frequently Asked Questions: Doom

5. Why do programmers get Halloween and Christmas mixed up?

Because OCT(31) = DEC(25)

6. When all else fails, read the manual.

7. Press any key to continue or any other key to quit…

8. Backup not found: (A)bort (R)etry (P)anic

9. You know you’re an email-junkie when…

  • You wake up at 3 a.m. to go to the bathroom and stop to check your e-mail on the way back to bed.
  • You turn off your modem and get this awful empty feeling, like you just pulled the plug on a loved one.
  • You start using smileys in your snail mail.
  • You check your mail. It says “no new messages.” So you check it again

9. WindowError:001 Windows loaded. System in danger. WindowError:004 Erronious error. Nothing wrong.

WindowError:009 Horrible bug encounterd. God knows what has happened.

WindowError:00C Memory hog error. More ram needed. More! More!

WindowError:00F Unexplaind error. Please tell us how it happened.

WindowError:010 Reserved for future mistakes

WindowError:014 Nonexisent error. This cannot really be happening.

WindowError:01B Illegal error. Do not get this error.

WindowError056: Operator fell asleep while waiting.

Sing me a Whiskey Lullaby

7 Sep


Eva want to sing a whiskey lullaby… Eva xperience a heart break..when sum1 jst rips ur heart out…A part of ur heart jst falls apart, one tear falls for each moment spent without sum1 N u have to say goodbye 4eva!! Then sing a Whiskey Lullaby…

She put him out like the burnin’ end of a midnight cigarette
She broke his heart he spent his whole life tryin’ to forget
We watched him drink his pain away a little at a time
But he never could get drunk enough to get her off his mind
Until the night

He put that bottle to his head and pulled the trigger
And finally drank away her memory
Life is short but this time it was bigger
Than the strength he had to get up off his knees
We found him with his face down in the pillow
With a note that said I’ll love her till I die
And when we buried him beneath the willow
The angels sang a whiskey lullaby

The rumors flew but nobody knew how much she blamed herself
For years and years she tried to hide the whiskey on her breath
She finally drank her pain away a little at a time
But she never could get drunk enough to get him off her mind
Until the night

She put that bottle to her head and pulled the trigger
And finally drank away his memory
Life is short but this time it was bigger
Than the strength she had to get up off her knees
We found her with her face down in the pillow
Clinging to his picture for dear life
We laid her next to him beneath the willow
While the angels sang a whiskey lullaby

A tear runs down her cheek
He has someone that cares for him so much
And with that she turns and walks away
He didnt try to stop hrt
But she keeps going
She knows these feelings will not easily pass
But she is strong…