What a girl wants…

16 Jul

Was surfin’ on the net and i found this… Its for all guys who seem to 4get what a gal rilly wants… 😦

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Be sincere ein allez tell me how many guys out there would love to be a fly on the wall among a room full of gals spilling their guts about the way they feel about them? It would definitely be a treat and could probably help guys understand exactly what it is that gals have on their minds. It’s true that gals don’t understand guys, who are as much of a mystery as gals.

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SOME ADVICES 🙂

If you are involved in a new relationship it would be wise not to be too affectionate yet until you feel you have gotten to know each other enough to advance to that stage of the relationship. A woman needs to know she has her space, but that you will be there if she needs you.

In case you didn’t notice, you better notice soon, that a woman thinks unlike a man and has different needs than a man. It’s important to a woman to be understoodThis may mean she is bothered by something that wouldn’t necessarily bother you. You will often need to put your manly ways aside to understand where she’s coming from and to be sensitive to it.

 

If you can do that. She will be surprised and happy.

Next.

 

Respect.

 

Ah yes! Respect.

 

Don’t be confrontational if you can help it. If she’s got something on her mind that’s bothering her and it shows, be respectful to her feelings.Let her have her say AND LISTEN. Respond without anger and insult or you can kiss your ars good-bye. It’s really not asking much to have some respect. If you can’t do that, it’s going nowhere. Respect would include manners. Be polite, open the door, and notice that she is there. Walking beside you not behind you.

Communicate.

Got something on YOUR mind?? Speak up! Talk. Say something. Doesn’t it feel so good after you say what’s on your mind. Don’t be afraid what she’ll say. She will more than likely be thrilled (also,surprised) to hear you speak from your heart. She’ll be thinking ” Wow, A real man!” not “What am I living with!” if that be the case, you can save your own self from years of un-happyness.

 

Wow! How could I forget the most important thing!

 

COMPROMISE! You must be able to compromise!

Gentle acts of kindness go a long way!!

 

Those little things you do for her will not go unnoticed. An occasional big thrill (surprise) is great now and then but too much of the kiss-a$$’n can be a turn-off. It can be refered to as an obsession. But, the little things you do for her will bring emotional dividends of joy for both of you.

Remember to be thoughtful. Take the time to say and do what you plan for her. IT’S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS.

 

Don’t pretend. Be yourself even if YOU think it’s not good enough for her, it is.

 

Don’t over spend but don’t be cheap either.

 

Don’t lie to her. If she pesters you with some suspicious questions, know that she is aware of many things. so BETTER TELL HER THE TRUTH

 

Do things together but recognize when she needs to do it alone.

 

Let her know that you know she has a choice.

 

Make sure when your out together that she is having a good time.

 

Be open minded but keep the personal stuff out of the conversation with others. This is respect of your relationship.

 

Be alone as often as you can to talk, listen and love each other.

 

Most of all, just make time for your relationship. Don’t let it slide away just because you think you have her now. Keep it fresh every day. A relationship needs constant nurturing or it will die.

 

Let her know, now and then, how much you enjoy her company. If she is an important part of your life, it should be expressed.

 

Show her your good points and let them shine

 

If you can sing. Sing something sweet to her.

 

If you can cook, cook something nice for her.

 

Be honest:Don’t pretend.This means don’t try to impress her with things you can’t really do.Don’t fake it. She will know and you’ll be in trouble.

 

If you don’t have a nice thing to say, don’t say it. At least find a respectable way of putting it if you must.

 

Hmmm..that’s all for now!! Hope u put some in practice…lol!!

Allez Hav a nice week… images_5d621b8e44b7961a0d6fa57aec7d.gif

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7 Responses to “What a girl wants…”

  1. Val July 23, 2007 at 4:28 pm #

    being offline is a way of life!
    hehe!

  2. Muzzammil July 24, 2007 at 11:19 am #

    That’s a lot. but most goes in the natural sense….or may be not….

  3. xxmalihaxx July 24, 2007 at 4:27 pm #

    a lot?? lol! definitely not..zez r som basic stuffs! if u cant do wv it, zen dun xpect z relationship 2go any further. hehe

  4. xxmalihaxx July 24, 2007 at 4:28 pm #

    @val- To b noted, wasnt online @all 2d..muahahaha!

  5. ¥@$# August 1, 2007 at 6:56 pm #

    Sa mem tout??????? Thought there would have been more… lolz… Is that some kind of dissertation? Think my mouse scroll got screwed with it… Kidding, it’s not that long…
    Someone who does write long posts is Roushdat… Moi non ein! lol

  6. xxmalihaxx August 2, 2007 at 11:43 am #

    uh…put this lil much in practice 1st! rightly said zat bans garcons bien exigeants ein..lmao jokin’ :p we gals got only zis lil much to ask 😦

  7. carolina chavez December 18, 2008 at 4:11 pm #

    love!!!!!!!!

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